Showing posts with label Public School. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Public School. Show all posts

Sunday, February 24, 2019

First Year Homeschool Memories: Snow in Texas





One of the things I loved about homeschooling was the rare fleeting moments we would get when everyone else was in school.   Like enjoying a brief Texas snow flurry.

Snow is rare in Texas, so even the smallest dusting is a treat.   That morning we headed out as soon as the snowflakes began to fall.   There was a little koi pond at a gardening store at the end of our block...and we walked out to it.  My son wanted to know if fishes get cold.  I'm sure they do...they were all huddled up on the bottom in one corner of the pond...and didn't come up to the top to greet us like they usually do.



My other two were in school when the snow hit.  After we finished our walk out in the white stuff, I hemmed and hawed about whether to go get them out of school.  I finally looked at the weather and it said it would get warmer later so I got my youngest re-bundled and got in the car.

It was still snowing when we left, but half way to their school it started to rain. Alas, no point in them missing a day to play in slush, so we turned around.

My older two later told me they did get a few minutes out in the snow.  At the intermediate school the whole school got to go outside for 10 minutes (not much, but at least it was something).  The elementary school stayed inside for recess (Ptttth!  Come on!  Let them play in it!  But, maybe it was turning to rain by then.).  However,  during library time the kids were taking pictures through the window, and the librarian had pity on them and let them go outside for a few minutes to take pictures of the snow with their ipads.   Yeah for librarians!   But honestly, with how infrequently we got snow back in Texas, I'm surprised the teachers didn't jump on the change to let the kids experience it.    I was sorry my older kids didn't get to do more than that.   But it made me so thankful that at least my youngest home for it. 


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Thursday, February 21, 2019

A Change of Paths...and What's Ahead for Imaginative Homeschool



I have a big announcement to make.    After four years of homeschooling my youngest (my only homeschooler), we made the the difficult decision to try public school again. We have LOVED homeschooling, but for various reasons this was the right decision for us . 

I didn't announce it right away because we weren't sure how it was going to go, and I had so much emotional  baggage to sort through.  I wasn't even sure if he would stay or be back homeschooling in a few months, but he's happy and doing well so it looks like we're sticking with this. 

This is NOT the end of homeschool content on this blog!    To start with, I have the rest of our Story of the World chapters to blog about (I've only blogged to chapter 13 but we are FINISHED with Volume 1 and half way through Volume 2.)   That's about 50 posts right there alone.  And I have notes on A BUNCH of other things we did while homeschooling that I plan to finally get around to blogging about.   I have resources for All About Spelling and Math U See I never posted, lots of arts and crafts I'll be sharing, and more tricks and tips on a variety of subjects.   I will keep the name "Imaginative Homeschool" for now, as it still describes a lot of what I'll be blogging about.   You'll notice though that I've adding "+ afterschooling and summer-school" to the blog header because that describes the part of our journey we're on now, which I plan to blog about too!

Our summer-schooling will be a lot like our homeschooling was during the year (only maybe just 3 days a week).   My kiddo needs it to prevent summer slide, plus there's so much interest based stuff that we wanted to do and haven't done yet.  

I also think its important to blog about our experience going back to "traditional school" after homeschooling, because in some ways that's as difficult a leap as starting homeschooling can be, and a very different experience from sending kids to school who have never homeschooled.  And while there's lots of guidance out there for new homeschoolers, there's a lot less for homeschoolers returning to traditional school, and I want to help others going through the same thing...or at least share my experience so they can feel like they're not alone. 

Wherever you are on your journey, I hope you'll stick with us for the rest of ours.

With Love,
Gale








Tuesday, April 3, 2018

Should Homeschool Parents Be Certified? Views From Certified Teachers Who Homeschool




I often hear people suggest that parents who homeschool should get the same training that certified teachers do.   There's even a bill going through the California legislature right now that deals with that question (UPDATE:   The bill was dropped, thankfully.).

But, when I asked certified teachers who now homeschool whether they think all parents should be certified before homeschooling, the answer has been a  resounding "NO."

Some of these former teachers have allowed me to share their reasons... 

Sandra Balisky
Homeschool mom, certified teacher, and blogger at Real World Learners 

As a former high school math teacher with a Masters in Teaching, currently homeschooling my own kids, I am completely convinced that homeschooling parents do NOT need teacher certification in order to teach their own children. There is enough material in the homeschooling market, internet, libraries, neighborhood classes, and community in general to educate any child about everything they would ever want or need to know. A formal certification process would not better qualify a parent to teach; they already have the biggest advantage in the world over any classroom teacher - parents love their own children with unconditional love; they are 100% invested in their future and, thus, success; they know their own children's learning styles and strengths and have the freedom and flexibility to adapt every single learning activity to best suit each child; and they have lower "classroom" ratios than any teacher can ever have. 

There are many aspects in which homeschooling may not work for any given family, but a parent having or not having a teaching certificate is not a determining factor in the success or failure of the overall experience. Parents who want to make it work will make it work, and will most likely provide a far superior educational experience due to the simple fact of their love and care for, investment in, and understanding of their own children's learning styles, interests, and needs.

~ Sandra Balisky, homeschooler and teacher and blogger at 


Emily Sara 
Homeschool mom and teacher, certified in CA and NC 
Teaching 1-5 kids who are yours and you have a vested interest is is WAY different than meeting the needs of 20-30 kids at one time who are all at different levels. You have to teach the same or similar content in a variety of ways. 

I do not think you need to be certified to homeschool but you do need to be to teach in a traditional classroom. 


Susan Evans
Homeschool mom, certified teacher in CA and TX, and blogger at Susan Evans.org.   The quotes below are from a post she shared about a time when she was called on to defend a fellow homeschooler's ability to homeschool in court.  Used with permission:  order of quotes has been changed.

I knew many certified teachers in the school system who were lousy.  A true teacher is anyone who is willing to break down a concept for someone else.  The education classes I took at university to become certified were mostly drivel. The History of Education in America was the most boring class I’ve ever taken. It was a bunch of fluff. Basically, certification is just a piece of paper. Yes, you had to pass exams, but that never proved that a person would be a good teacher.

... the parent is the ideal teacher because she wants the best for her child, and she will move heaven and earth to research what the best is, and deliver it. No one knows the child as much as the parent, and weaknesses can be strengthened much more easily because they are known. Strengths can be developed to a much deeper level, because so much more time is available. Homeschoolers can accomplish in two hours what took me a whole day to accomplish in the classroom. It’s the truth. I’ve been on both sides.


Kathy Gossen
Homeschool mom, certified teacher, and blogger at Cornerstone Confessions

College did not prepare me to teach. Teaching prepared me to teach. Some of the best homeschool teachers/moms I know do not have teaching certificates. They learned to teach their kids through experience. And there are so many helpful homeschool resources and curriculum aids now that taking the step to successfully homeschool your children is easier than ever before.




These are only a few of the classroom-teachers-turned-homeschoolers I've asked about this subject, and I've yet to meet one who thinks that homeschool parents need teacher certification. 

I will end with a little bit of my own experience.   Over 20 years ago I walked into a middle school classroom with a degree in English Literature and Certification in Secondary Education.   Even with that preparation, I was utterly un-prepared.  I crashed and burned within 5 weeks. 

So, I understand why some may wonder how someone can face teaching their own children without even that preparation, inadequate though it was.

But homeschooling has been a completely different experience than classroom teaching.  And why shouldn't it be?  As the other teachers mentioned, teaching ONE child at home is not at all the same as teaching a whole class.

Before walking into a classroom of kids you don't know, with pretty much just your authority to maintain discipline, and a workload level that will often have you doing grading and lesson plans long into the night, you NEED that teacher training to survive.

  • That training teaches you the different ways that children learn.
But in homeschool, you only need to know how your own children learn.
  • That training teaches you how to manage and maintain discipline in a classroom. 
But you KNOW how to maintain discipline of your own children... you've been doing it all their lives. 
  • That training teaches you instruction methods generally designed to work in a large group setting.
In homeschool, you are usually working one on one, or in a very small group setting with learners of varying ages.   Many of the best methods for teaching in this setting are different than the methods used for teaching larger groups.
  • That training teaches you methods for assessing and keeping track of the learning of a large group of students, and how to fairly grade those students.
When teaching your own children, it is much easier to assess how they are doing, even without that training.  Class size matters here.
  • That training teaches you the laws and regulations of your profession.
Homeschoolers have to follow the laws and regulations of their state, but  these laws are different from what teachers, who are acting "in loco parentis," have to follow.
 

Homeschooling is closer to tutoring than classroom teaching.  And with modern curriculum available that guides you on how to teach your child, homeschooling forums for advice, and co-ops with classes to supplement your learning at home,  a parent absolutely can teach their own children at home without the training that classroom teachers get. 

As for the parts of my teacher training which are applicable to homeschool, it's rare to find a homeschool parent who doesn't learn those things along the way.  I think many don't realize how much research and self-training homeschooling parents do.  They are getting the knowledge they need to teach their children, just in an alternative way. 

Requiring certification of homeschoolers would mean many people successfully homeschooling their children would suddenly not be able to.   Even those who could afford the cost of going back to school to do this would have to take precious time away from educating their children to get this training.  And many homeschoolers would find the cost of that training prohibitive. I know many homeschoolers who struggle financially--most are families living on a single income for whom going back to school while homeschooling is not a feasible option.  Single parents sometimes homeschool too, and this would be especially burdensome on them.

And, many of those who homeschool, like me, are homeschooling because traditional school did not work for their children. Some left because of bullying, others left because of violence in their schools, some left because their child had a special need that wasn't being addressed as well as they could address it at home (a learning disability, or on the other hand, extreme giftedness...and some with "twice exceptional" kids who have both).  Some have children who have medical issues that frequently cause them to be absent from school, so being taught at home means they aren't "skipping" lessons and can continue learning even while in the hospital. So, for many of these kids going back to traditional school would mean going back to a system that has already failed them.

And the people MOST LIKELY to be homeschooling because their kids were in a failing school, or a school that was dangerous...are more likely to be lower income parents unable to pick up and move to a better area, and less likely to be able to afford extra schooling to be certified.   So requiring certification would be likely to hurt the kids who benefit from homeschooling the most.  





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Monday, May 2, 2016

TESTING: A Homeschooler's Story

I currently only homeschool ONE of my children.  The other two attend public school.  So, the issue of standardized testing very important to me.  On the one hand I understand the need for some sort of assessment that helps schools to know how well they're doing.  On the other hand, I see how standardized testing comes with baggage that can hurt our schools as well.    I'm wary of too much time being spent on "test taking techniques," or of too much pressure on kids to do well on these tests.

I've personally seen the push towards more academic pressure in the early grades which high stakes testing can lead to...a trend which researchers say doesn't lead to any later gains, and which can burn out students on school and actually lead to worse results later on.   I was disheartened to hear our son's kindergarden teacher say that she had been discouraged from incorporating too much play-based learning in the classroom, exactly the type of learning that is so essential at that age.  And I see testing, and the pressure it puts on schools, as the main driver of these misguided trends.

Equally troubling is hearing from my son, towards the end of his 5th grade year, say that they were "finally doing more labs" in his science class "now that testing was over."  Things like that make me concerned that testing is negatively affecting what goes on in the classroom.

But while I left testing behind when I decided to homeschool my youngest,  not every homeschool parent can do that.  In some states yearly testing is required for all homeschoolers.  A homeschooling friend from one of those states shared the following story with me, which she graciously allowed me to share here:



We are doing our annual Stanford test.  It's online which is awesome because I don't have to worry about occupying the other kids at an away location for the entire 4 days of testing required to accommodate my family.

However, this testing is still troublesome to me.  I do understand why PA wants testing in certain grades.  I get it.  They want to make sure that no one is educationally neglecting their kids.

But!  Today has been heartbreaking so far.

I walked up the the boys' room this morning to get DS(9) up for testing.  Inside I hear hushed tones:

DS(9): Please don't go out.  I don't want to start those tests.

DS(11): I need to pee!  I've gotta go out to the bathroom.  And it doesn't matter, she'll come get you anyway.

DS(9): But I hate those tests.  They make me feel stupid.  I want to know if I got the answers right.  Let's just stay in here and stay quiet.  Maybe she'll forget to start the test.

DS(11):  She gets an email telling her the codes to type in for our test sessions.  That email isn't going to let her forget.

DS(9): [crying now]  But I don't want to take those tests.  And if I don't do a good job, they'll make me go to school.  I want to stay home.  I hate tests where they don't tell you if you got an answer wrong right then and there.  

DS(11):  Instant gratification shouldn't be necessary in a man your age.
Heartbreaking.

We hugged and I reassured him as much as I could, but I just hate having this kind of morning.

I also told him that no matter how he does on the test, I will fight tooth and nail for him to make his own educational choices.

I just had to share our crappy day with people who will understand.



What is your opinion of standardized testing?  Do homeschoolers have to take standardized tests where you live?



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Friday, August 7, 2015

Public School Flashback: 10 Things I Hate About The School Supply List



I have one homeschooled and two still in school.  While choosing a curriculum is a headache, and of course you need to get some school supplies at home, it is no where close to the headache I go through with my two public school kids.  

This is not a criticism of the need for school supplies--nor criticism of the teachers or school for asking for stuff.  I totally get that what they ask for are reasonable things to ask in exchange for educating my children, and I know the teacher's own shopping list is just as long (I once taught in public school...so I get it).  But like many other necessary things, it's still a pain in the butt sometimes every single year.  


10 Things I Hate About Back to School Shopping

  • Spending an hour+ searching for things on the list.  It's like a scavenger hunt, only less fun.
  • Cryptic descriptions of school supplies I've never heard of.
  • Having to go to 3 stores to find that ONE required color folder that always seems to run out.
  • Finding the exact brand the teacher asked for, specifically, and right next to it finding a seemingly identical product by another brand for half the price.  
  • Accidentally mixing up some of one child's school supplies with another's.
  • Clothes shopping with a picky child. 
  • Getting your kids new clothes and shoes, just to have them walk through the mud in their new shoes the day before school.  (Mental note...next time I will not let my child use their new shoes early, no matter how worn the old ones are, or how much they beg me).
  • Not being able to find all the things you actually can re-use from last year (like scissors and earbuds), buying another, then finding the one's from last year 2 days after school starts.
  •  Realizing after the first day of school that after all that time and effort you STILL managed to miss some things. 
  • Having to repeat all this hullabalu a week later when your high schoolers and middle schoolers bring home the lists for their classes. 
If, like me, you have some kids in public school, take a breath and remember we at least we only have to do this once a year!

If you are exclusively homeschooling, take a moment to stop and reflect on the blessing of getting to  skip all this!   I remember how relieved I was when I went "back to homeschool shopping" for my youngest for the first time...dry erase markers, a notebook, some paper, a dinosaur book and sweat pants.   THAT WAS IT.  (Ok, ok...maybe that's not accurate.   I guess I wasn't counting the months I spent searching for the right curriculum.).   

Whether you are homeschooling or traditional schooling or a little bit of both, hope you and your children have a great school year!